Brennan Cohoon

English 10, 3rd hr

3-20-16

Stereotypical “Blind”

 

It kind of makes me mad when one girl gets upset over one guy and blames all of the guys in the world.  Women say “Guys are so cruel”, yeah some of them are cruel, but some have hearts and care for others.  Girls do not realize that when they get hurt, they let themselves get hurt.  They need to know going into a relationship or a friendship what kind of guy that guy is.  If they feel suspicious in the beginning like he is a bad guy and this isn’t going to work, and they go through with it, then that is their fault.  It sucks to have girls complain to me about how guys are terrible when they are letting themselves get played around with.  I agree some guys are heartless and have no feelings and those guys think that they are the shit and they are not.  Those guys think it’s okay to go hook up with any girl they want even if they have committed to a girl or are with no girl at all.  Yeah your bros might think you’re cool and you’ll get a couple high fives from them but if somebody came to me with the information, “I slept with 3 girls this weekend”, they are not going to get a high five, they are going to get a sarcastic “cool”.  Those are the guys that you don’t want to surround yourself with.  It just creates bad habits and unhealthy relationships.  The guys that I just explained are the “cruel” guys.  I on the other hand am the sincere guy who has a heart and would do anything for anyone in the moment and when the moment was right.  Nobody is perfect but I try my best to put smiles on people’s faces.  I sin, I cry, and I wonder but I have the ability to try and forget the negative in my life.  I have learned that it’s not worth having someone in your life who treats you like you don’t belong.  Someone who treats you with no care and no guilt for the trouble that they have caused you.  I learned to block those people out of my life.  But back to the beginning, it hurts when a girl comes to me about being hurt by a “cruel” guy, when the guy they’ve been looking for the whole time is there for them full time.  Open up your eyes, you’re blind.